Miscellanies

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Little League and Little Hearts

It’s been a rainy spring here in Maryland, and after some rain outs the little league season began yesterday for our six-year-old son. In his first ever baseball game, he hit a single, two doubles, a triple, and scored three runs. At the plate he looked like a natural (if you didn’t get distracted by the undersized batting helmet that pinched his head and refused to go down all the way). Defensively, he made two put outs from third base in one inning. His team won 20-6.

But more importantly, I was watching to see how my son would respond to mistakes, errors, coaching instruction, the play of his opponents, and the successes of his teammates. We’ve been talking about the manifold temptations he will experience in baseball hoping to capture as many of these as opportunities to train him for life.

C.J. Mahaney has helped me to understand these sports as great opportunities for God-glorifying, character building in our children. And Saturday I was reminded of the very helpful teaching of C.J. as I was watched the young kids kicking the dust, folding their ears over as they squeezed on the small batting helmets, listened to coaches blurt out the most obvious of commands, the chuckles of the parents watching our kids axe hack at pitches over their heads, watching grounders trickle to the outfield past statues of infielders, and the puzzled looks of two teams of players who had never worn a baseball uniform.

In an interview with Steve Shank posted earlier on TSS C.J. explains how he trained his son in humility during the soccer season (see “Interview with C.J. Mahaney on biblical masculinity”). I’m reminded that I want to prepare my son to walk on the field with a theological awareness of what’s happening. But first I need to become a father with this cultivated awareness. And that’s where the growth needs to first happen.

April 20, 2008 Posted by spurgeon | Parenting | | 3 Comments